Wedding Etiquette

Etiquette exists for every detail with regard to everything. From introducing guests to each other to your invitations, there just no escaping etiquette. For the most part, many of us have been raised knowing the basics. However, when it comes to weddings, there are many things that are thrown from left field.

For example:

  1. Telling your parents. Tradition states that the bride should tell her parents first. The groom should be the next to tell his parents. If the families have not met, this should also immediately follow.
  2. Invitations. Know how to word your invitations correctly. This is the first impression your guests will have of your wedding. There are many circumstances that change the format.
  3. Appropriate attire. Depending on your wedding time and style, your veil will also change accordingly. By following this link we will assist you with the proper etiquette for your wedding.
  4. Money gifts. While it is considered inappropriate and somewhat rude to ask for cash instead of presents on your wedding day there is a more subtle way to do this. When you register, only pick very few items. This will hopefully give your guests the hint.
  5. Paying for the wedding. Money talk tends to be a somewhat touchy subject. It's important to have a budget in mind before you sit down with your parents and the in-laws. This will prevent unnecessary bickering.
  6. Introduction of guests. Be sure always to introduce guests appropriately. Always give the older person, or closer family member the higher rank. When introducing your guest always say the higher ranking person's name first. For instance, "Uncle Jack, I would like you to meet my college roommate Nancy" and so on.
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